The Price of Solitude

After passing away of model and actress Humaira Ali, many questions arise. Many questioned her staying alone. Many questioned her profession. Many questioned her choices. Many did not like her lifestyle. At this age of life, we cannot question and judge why someone chose a certain career or loneliness. Some people like to keep their life private and stay an introvert.No one can know how much trauma someone is going through. Why someone left family? Why someone went into isolation? It is very hard to answer these whys. At times people ask me to marry and leave solitude but let me remind you that husband and marriage isn't for everyone. After thirties and forties, it is almost impossible to find a single available dude, as most of the mald friends in your circle are already married with kids. In your twenties, things never worked in arranged setups beacuse of heavy demands from boy and his family. My question is: Does having a relationship or marriage solve this problem? At least you have someone around you when you die. In my humble opinion, marriage is also not a solution. For an aged widow or divorced woman without kids and parents. Humera ali is not the first case. Remember beautiful Parveen Babi who died alone in her house. Nalni Jaywant and Geeta Kapoor died lonely deaths. Silk smitha was found dead in her flat. The importance of household and family arises here. Staying alone and away from family is dangerous. I belong to media too but I chose to stay with my family. Our career and our profession is our choice but staying alone isnt recommended. In case if you are unable to marry or the biological clock has ticked for your marriage and starting a family, you need to create a good social circle or adopt a child. Actress Ayesha khan, despite having kids died a lonely death. So what is the solution then? Geeta Kapoor had two kids and died alone. I see many parents dying alone these days as their children are in other cities or countries. I can not suggest or find any solution to this problem. Most of us choose an introvert and solitary path because people make our lives hell. Social circles are also toxic as you are a questionable object there. I left many circles as I was only asked about staying single. That was becoming heavy on my nerves. You can not tell people again and again that the boy's mother did not like your curly hair. You can not tell people that the boy's mother did not like your tall physique. I chose solitude because peace was important for me. The story continues....No answer to this question...