Choice is yours

Life is always a choice for a woman. Relationship is also a choice for a woman. 1) If you choose to marry at a young age, you must know that you will make many silly mistakes for which you will not be forgiven. 2) If you choose to marry in an arranged setup, you must know that the guy will be unknown to you and many aspects of his personality will be shocking for you. 3) If you choose to marry an unemployed dude, you must realize that he will feed on your income and will need lots of financial support. 4) If you choose to marry a very well established and successful dude, you must realize that you will always be treated low. Your self esteem will be shattered after some time. 5) If you choose to marry a very handsome and prince charming kind man, you should be ready to cope with his affairs and girl friends too. 6) If you choose to marry a very religious man, your services will be cloaked in religion as you will miss many aspects of grounded life. 7) If you choose to marry a rich dude and be his trophy wife, you are living life as a puppet only. You are dressing, eating and living according to his requirements. 8) If you marry an average looking dude, you will always be blamed for for your beauty and its misusage. He will only accuse you for having imaginary affairs with men, because he is complexed about his looks. 9) If you marry a dude much younger than you, always be prepared that he will leave you some day over a younger girl, accusing you for infertility, old age and youthful pleasures. 10) If you marry a widower, you must know that shadows of his deceased wife are still haunting him. He is still attached to her and might keep comparing you to his old wife. Get ready to fight with a shadow. 11) If you choose to marry a very older dude, you must realize that he might pass away and will come with nothing. His emotions, passions and fires are all gone. After his demise, you will be kicked out by step children. 12) If you choose to have relationship with a married dude, you must realize that his wife and children are his first priority. You are only a 'side chick' for him. He will never give you the space you want in your life. Most of your dreams will be unfulfilled. 13) If you choose to marry your blood cousin, you must be prepared for medically unfit kids. Cousin marriages bring lots of genetic diseases. 14) If you choose to marry after forties, you must know that biological clock to start a family has gone down. No pregnancy is possible at this age. The dude you are marrying must know that babies cant happen at this age. 15) If you choose to marry a widower with kids, you must know that you are only an educated servant to his kids. 16) Lastly, if you choose to stay alone and single, get ready for something very serious. Get ready for people questioning you and your sexuality. You don't have any engagement ring, you don't have any wedding bells. You don't have have any wedding dress to wear. You don't have any wedding album to share. You don't have any husband stories to share with anyone. You don't have any honeymoon memories. You are missing motherhood and kids. If you have a social circle where your friends are married, you might feel depressed. On a darker note, some male friends will try to flirt with you as an option, since you are available. 17) If you choose to marry via a marriage center, they will never contact you after taking money. It is a very old tactic. 18) If you form a relationship with a player, you must know that things will never manifest into real marriage. So choice is yours now...