The Cheapest Man in my Life

We keep meeting people in our lives. We keep getting lessons from them. I do not have enemies or foes. I live a simple life. Marriage was never possible because mothers of men put unrealistic demands. Life was going good and average like. I usually stay in reality. One day, I received a message from Mr. X. I will not take any names but would love to write what he did. He approached me for a relationship. His views were polygamy based. In the current times, polygamy is not possible. He kept convincing and I was ok with that. The guy was already married with a kid. I had crossed 40s and most of the proposals I was getting were of married men with kids. Anyhow, the talks continued for a month and he invited me to his place. He belonged to medical field. I said ok. When I paid a visit, he was not there and one of his friends attended me. I felt a lot of insult that day. I am not fond of meeting people like that. I have a high ego when it comes to meeting men. It might have been a pressure from society that I took such a big step. Even in my college days, I never met anyone like that. I will not call it dating but an official visit. This was the first time I did it and did not like it. When I came back, after a few days I received his message that he was happily married and was ok with one marriage. Fine, not a problem. At times things do not work and we move on. We need to be receptive. After that, he started treating me like a free commodity and door mat. He kept using fake ids and used very bad words for me. He started calling me asexual, bisexual, lgbtq person as I did not marry. He made lots of bad comments about my face, looks and get up. He used the words "prostitute" and "ugly hag" for me. He even kept making fun of me unable to find a partner. He kept making fun of me for not having any biological children. The ids were fake. I have never seen such a C rated and third class man in my life. He even called me a lesbian for not having a male partner or husband. His attitude was highly intolerable. He said many sick things about me. He even said that I was a male using a female getup. None of the things he assumed and said about me were true. I might have gone through huge trauma in my first legal relationship and not interested in men any more. I have never seen such a cheap person in my life before. After this incident, my friends referred proposals of many married men to me but I was not ok now. I usually do not repeat my lessons. People and elders around me were like that single men would not be there at this age. From a social point of view, polygamy is not possible these days and it only brings insult and trauma. Lastly, his jokes were about having a family around him and my solitary life. He even told me that my worth was only Rs. 200 as haq meher. He even called me infertile and childless. I found it more than enough. I found it very insulting and humiliating. I think if you become second choice of someone, you will always get this treatment. I will not call it flirting. This was not even polygamy. In the diary of my life, I rate him a as a "C rated", manipulative, player fuck boy and the "cheapest man in my life".