My Demands In a Relationship

Miracles keep happening everyday. Trust should always be there. At times, many people ask me what kind of partner I always wanted. Were my demands too high? In fact I had the least demands. But a person with such traits was never there. Well, I became the person I always wanted. She never found a hero so she became the one. I kept developing all the traits I wanted in a partner. 1) Availability: (This was the most required trait as I never got someone who was available for me. Marriage centers were full of dudes looking for second wife, in presence of first. Marriage auntys only referred married men to me. That was not my demand. 2) More masculinity: I am not fond of men who exhibit feminine energies too much. I am not fond of men with short heights. Myself being 5.7 in height, I could not marry a man with height of 5.2. 3) Not a gold digger: I am not a gold digger neither I demanded a person with a greedy mindset. 4) Good background: This matters a lot for me. 5) Hygiene: I care a lot about physical, emotional and spiritual hygiene. I am not fond of someone with long nails and untidy getup. Taking showers everyday and staying clean is very important for me. 6) Shared goals and similar mindset: I got some proposals from dudes who wanted me to be overly religious, leave work and wear abaya. I am moderate. 7) Looks: Looks are always important for me. I always preferred an age difference of 3 to four years. I am not fond of very old or very young partner. My first (and only) relationship did not work as the man was eighteen years older than me. 8) Serious minded: Player boys and short time flirts have never been my wish. Mostly men outside are only into short term flirting. People at matrimonial websites are only killing time without involving families. (I have no interest in exes of a partner, past relationships, bank balance, smoking, not having a house of his own kind things.)