Bibi Sanam janam

بی بی صنم جانم انارِ سیستانم
adored lady, my love, my (sweet) Sistani pomegranate

بہ دروازۂ تاج قرغان جائے صنم جانم
at the gate of Tashkurgan is your home, my dearest love

کسے حرفِ دلِ ما را ندانست
no one knows what our heart says

بہائے محفلِ ما را ندانست
knows not the value of our gathering

بہ جز طوفان کسے در شہرِ غربت
in the alien city, except for the storm, no one

نشانِ محفلِ ما را ندانست
(no one) knows where our gathering is

بی بی صنم جانم انارِ سیستانم
adored lady, my love, my (sweet) Sistani pomegranate

بہ دروازۂ تاج قرغان جائے صنم جانم
at the gate of Tashkurgan is your home, my dearest love

دلِ نازک تر از اندیشہ دارم
I have a heart weaker through fear

ہوائے معتدل چون ریشہ دارم
as temperate weather makes the roots flourish

ہمہ گلہائی عالم گر بخشکد
were all the flowers of the world to dry up

تو در باغِ خیالیم ریشہ داری
you will still be rooted in the garden of our thoughts

بی بی صنم جانم انارِ سیستانم
adored lady, my love, my (sweet) Sistani pomegranate

بہ دروازۂ تاج قرغان جائے صنم جانم
at the gate of Tashkurgan is your home, my dearest love

How to Avoid Marriage Frauds

#Avoidmarriageproposalscam Never get in touch with people you don't know. Just came across a scam today. The guy's brother told my mother that his brother is a divorcee and grieved. Upon investigation, the guy is happily married and not a divorcee. Elder brother has disputes with bhabi so trying to find a new proposal for his brother. Just sharing it..Avoid scams and frauds by conducting proper investigation. Don't take your daughter's life for granted. Even if some elder from boy's family contacts, never go by his words and do silent investigation.

#Avoidmarriageproposalscam A husband and wife living at F 10 keep on visiting every family. "Our son has gone out of station for work". This is the excuse they give to every family. They enjoy great tea and snacks and then leave. The reality is that their son is married and living happily. They just visit and fool families like this. Avoid such scams and frauds.

 #Avoidmarriageproposalscam People who don't give you their landline number and wish to visit, never allow them. Such people love having tea and snacks at every home and free food too. Serious parties would always give their complete details..

 #Avoidmarriageproposalscam A school principal keeps visiting families. She takes her daughter too. She visits girls and reality is that her son is engaged to his class fellow. The lady doesn't wanna miss out yummy tea and pakora parties at girls' homes, so she always says, Oh I forgot to bring picture of my son. Again a scam. Son is already taken and mom visiting girls. Over next day of visit, she calls and abuses girls' families that girl didn't give her respect, food wasn't good, she wasn't treated well. Only a psycho frustrated case. Consider it a scam too.
 #Avoidmarriageproposalscam A lady from abroad keeps visiting Pakistani families. She wants very skinny, model like and tall girl. Seems a scam too. Girls are being sold in "those" markets too. First fake marriages and then selling girls abroad for "X" markets. Avoid such proposals too and avoid such women too. Foreign country settlement, handsome groom and lot of money..Iski lalach detin..

Six Proposal Seeking Tips

1) We must avoid wierd comments while visiting families.
2)  Meet with the families normally so as to avoid boy or girl from getting hurt and goat modeling.
 3) We should avoid complete strangers and wierd matchmakers to avoid fraud.
4)  We must find from our existing circle.
5) We must interact with people whom we know and who know us well, instead of asking strangers who just waste our time.
6) Involve only parents and siblings while visiting families.Relatives may get jealous and create problems so only involve family. 

My Poem on Labor day

کولھو کے بیل کی طرح روزی کماتا رہا ہوں میں۔
اپنا ہی لھو جلا کر چولہا جلاتا رہا ہوں میں۔۔
تپتی دھوپ میں اپنا پسینہ بہاتا رہا ہوں میں۔۔
نہ کارخانہ میرا، نہ عمارت میری، نہ حکم میرا۔۔
روزی کی تلاش میں کس کس کے۔۔۔
آگے سر جھکاتا رہا ہوں میں۔۔۔
کتنوں کے گھر بنا چکا ہوں اب تک میں۔۔
خود مرے اپنے سر پر چھت نہیں ہے۔۔۔
سال میں ایک دن سب کو سناتا رہا ہوں میں۔۔
پر کیا کروں، ریت بھی یے اور روایت بھی۔۔
رو رو کر مزدوروں کا عالمی دن مناتا رہا ہوں میں۔۔۔